AlterNet: Election 2004: The Progressive Morality
This lays out better than I could (maybe) what is wrong with the so-called Family Values morality on the right. If you raise your children to live by outside rules and the whip, then you have children who must have rules to control them. If you raise your children to be independent and think for themselves, you will have a real job on your hands, but you will have upstanding and honorable sons and daughters who work to make the world better and can also obtain success in this world. But the getting there is damned hard work. They will think for themselves and that means a challenge. Raising such children is harder than raising those who live under rigid controls.